Parenting Advice – “Pillow Talks enable any parent to prepare their children to face life’s challenges – be it a playground bully, a big test at school, a bee sting or a hospital stay – and create an abundance of parental love and wisdom that your child can experinece forever” -Nurse Nancy Click Here For Testimonials

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Dear Parent:

If you are like me you love your children dearly and they are growing up much too quickly. Each day brings new surprises, joys,  and challenges.

We instinctively know that children who experience a strong level of parental love are better able to live their full potential and face whatever comes their way from the everyday kind of obstacles and irritations to extraordinary challenges. This is the desired result of what is called positive parenting.

I want you to reflect on when you talked to your child in the womb.  Do you remember telling them how much you love her/him? In this stillness you were able to connect to your unborn child. As  I remember my own conversations I recall the sacredness of these talks with joyous tears in my eyes.

I have learned that we can recreate this sacred time with our children while they are asleep. With your distractions behind you and their distractions turned off  this is the perfect time to rebuild the loving bond you have always desired.

It is the sleep time conversations that I call Pillow Talk. I use Pillow Talks to connect to my children. I also use them to eliminate fears and remove self-imposed obstacles that keep them from living their fullest potential. Such as the time I helped my son with his test taking. You can only begin to imagine how many doors would have shut for him if he continued on with poor testing skills. Now he is an “A” student and is aware he has choices as to what he wants to learn as he gets older and  as a 7th grader has goals to go to college.

I designed my book Pillow Talk recognizing that most people have only a slight understanding of affirmations and how to utilize them. That is why I provide 16 different Pillow Talks of the most common childhood challenges. These Pillow Talks are well thought out and ready to use. The instructions are simple. The same day you get the book you can be helping your child overcome the fear of bugs, sitting still to get a haircut, sitting still at the dentist to have a tooth pulled, pick up a book and start reading, performing better on test, and many more. For the adventurous type I include guidelines on how to create your own Pillow Talk specific for your child’s needs. I help you by providing words that work and words to avoid to  increase your Pillow Talk success.

The testimonials have been coming in and the results are amazing. Parents are reporting calmer and happier children. The benefits are mutual for the child and the person speaking the “Pillow Talk” . Imagine how amazing this feels to say these loving words “I love you with all my heart…!” It is the ultimate  Heart-to-heart. The change in your lives is immediate.

The most interesting testimonial came from a lovely lady that used “Pillow Talk” with her dog and reported a 14-year separation anxiety decreased by 80%. See the full testimonial with Spiritually Raw under my Media Page.

Blessings for a happy family and peaceful life,

Nurse Nancy Beck

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How Pillow Talk Was Born

Working as a critical care nurse for 23 years I often worked long shifts. Almost three times a week my children woke up and went to sleep without seeing me. My nearly 18-month old daughter was not saying “I love you”, she was not calling her brother by his given name, or playing well with the other little girl in her day care.

I had an ah-ha moment and put together my nursing skills of the mind-body-spirit connection along with my  mother’s intuition and I spoke my first Pillow Talk. Being the first time I was a little nervous to go into her room while she was asleep. Once I started speaking the words were so natural any hesitation fleeted away. I felt a joyful tearfulness as I spoke from the heart. When I was complete I sat at her side watching this peaceful child sleep. So incredibly beautiful and resting quietly.

The following day was more than I could have imagined. She started using the words “I love you!”. She started calling her brother by his name and the next day in daycare she asked the other little girl to play with her! It is hard to imagine how our life has changed.

My daughter is now in the 5th grade and has been asked to be a play-ground mentor at her school.  She was chosen from all of her grade of a 120 students by her peers being recognized as a person they would trust to resolve conflict in a fair unbiased manor. She is a creative and inspiring person.

I recognize how unique my daughters  story is. So, I also want to share about my son. He had no unique struggles. He grew up with events that created testing fears and a desire not to learn to read in Kindergarten. My husband and I spoke encouraging Pillow Talks while he was asleep.  He now is an A student who reads above grade level, and is an independent thinker who does not get caught up in 7th grade peer pressure. He has good friends and tells us he is happy. He helps us around the house and has dreams to create something in the science field that is useful to mankind. He is very intuitive and sensitive.

Parenting Tip – “Pillow Talk is a unique parenting skill that anyone can learn to use in a powerful way. It instills confidence, reduces worry naturally, and brings greater depths of love and connection between parents and children.” - Nurse Nancy Click Here For Testimonials

Here’s The Big News

Our children hear our words when they are asleep. During sleep they are free from all the distractions that go on during regular conversation. Research has proven that during sleep we are able to hear and  process information.

Research has also proven that we remember what we hear while we are sleeping and we access and act upon that information when we are awake. That means you’re sleeping child will listen to you, remember your parental advice, and take it to heart.

What are Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks are a one-minute message delivered while your child is sleeping. A Pillow Talk creates  a direct connection to provide your child with parental advice, healthy suggestions, and an assurance of your ongoing love and support for your child. When the proper words are used you can experience fantastic results while encouraging your child through life’s situations and fears while building an incredible loving bond.

Parenting Support – “It becomes a habit to start watching for what your children are doing right in life, so that you can tell them about it in your Pillow Talk. Not to mention, when you go in to talk to your child at this quiet peaceful time you are focusing intently on your child, so your distractions are also turned off. You are deeply bonding with your child and that can make for powerful changes within you and in your family.” - Nurse Nancy Click Here For Testimonials

Best Uses for Pillow Talk

Pillow Talk is an easy and effective tool for parenting help to infuse their children with love, nurturing, support and guidance in any area of life. It has been used in dozens of ways with remarkable results, including:

• Increasing self-confidence

• Breezing through dental work

• Making friends easily at a new school

• Improving test taking and reading skills

• Understanding how to be safe

• And more solutions

Pillow Talk empowers parents and children. In Part 1 of the book I go over 16 common situations a child might encounter and the Pillow Talks to use to help them through the situation. Think of them as parenting help templates.

In Part 2 of the book I teach you how to craft a Pillow Talk. Using the right timing, words and sequence which are important to getting the desired results so with a little practice you can design your own Pillow Talks and watch your child overcome fears, make better choices and experience life in a more secure and confident manner. As a side benefit, you’ll also notice that your family experiences and expresses more love toward one another.

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Discovering and learning the art of Pillow Talk has been a real gift to my family. Of all the parenting advice, parenting help, and parenting tips on raising children  Pillow Talks have given my family the most dramatic results in solving issues and situations in my children’s life. As my husband Mark always says: “Pillow Talk is the best tool in a parent’s tool box”.

I hope you see the unlimited possibilities of using Pillow Talks and choose to explore the art of encouraging and guiding your children while they sleep. Pillow Talks can be as big a gift to your family as it has been for mine. Just click on the buy now link below to start your own positive parenting revolution with Pillow Talk.

A free gift for you whether you purchase a copy of pillow talk or not  please accept the free download of my Pillow Talk book tour, “The Evolution in Positive Parenting”. Enter your name and email address in the signup form on the right and press “Submit”.

Blessings to you and your family!

Nurse Nancy Beck

Encouraging and guiding your children can branch off to many subjects and topics. You can read about available solutions for childhood difficulties and problems on this website at the web page: http://nursenancybeck.com/priceless-solutions.php. This web page gives many examples of how a parent can use pillow talks in their families lives while raising children.

A Few Parenting Resources than can be helpful to the viewer are the magazine websites Parenting Magazine and Parents Magazine. They offer daily article on parenting advice and parenting tips. Then there are parenting websites that can give parenting support  and child rearing advice such as Great Parenting and for stress and anxiety Stop Stressing Now the folks at parenting.org is run by Boystown. Other good parenting support and ideals for raising kids come from Family Education and for mom’s Cafemon is a good site.